Ladies, Have you been feeling left out?

Knowing guys can go to the local massage parlor for the so called happy ending massage, but there seems to be no equivalent for you? Well here is your opportunity to spoil yourself for an hour or two. Femspahhh, by Rocky Peterson Seattle based masseur provides dozens of themed massage experiences tailored to the interests of women. Here we can discuss Yoni massage, Breast Massage (including nipples) Butt massage, Pressure points massage of the pubic mound, vulva, vagina, clit, cervix and genital area, Sensual massage, Pussy massage or any variation of Happy Ending Massage that interests you.Women getting Happy Ending Massage in Seattle

I have Just one requirement; Please don’t discuss Cost, charge, how much ($) or any reference to money  relative to your chosen massage if it will include any of the above mentioned places on your body. I will give you your massage. Period. If you have something for me AFTER that, or if you want to contribute to the cost of the studio or provide any other reciprocal offering, that is entirely up to you. This is how I can keep both of us from engaging in illegal activities.

With that out of the way, lets look at what your Happy Ending Massage for Women session might entail.

I spend the first 75% of our time (90 minutes is best) working on tapping into your subconscious. Your Pelvic Nerve is your most sacred and protected nerve (kind of like guys testicles). You generally don’t have willpower control over this nerve. It actually has more control of you. But by various forms of contact with your skin, from your scalp to your feet, this nerve relaxes, softens and becomes activated. As this happens, your skin all over your body becomes hyper sensitive. Every little touch becomes delicious. I might be lightly touching the outside of your knee, but you will be amazed to ponder how good it suddenly feels. Many places I touch that are not normally considered erogenous might suddenly transfer sensation straight to your pelvic nerve, resulting in sensations that seem to be in your pussy area.

After indirectly teasing your pelvic nerve for 45-60 minutes, the slightest contact with your breasts, may shoot throbbing sensations to your vagina and clit. Anticipation is a powerful tool in exciting your sex organs. I use it to the full extent of the time you have with me. Then I build more sexual tension form there. Where the happy ending for men last from 1-5 minutes of some awful hammering motions, yours will start very slowly. Moving a finger millimeter by millimeter over the vulva, then maybe some rolling of labia between my fingers. I don’t want to ruin the movie for you but, you will be more excited than you have been in a long time when I have your clit between my fingers and another finger at the opening of your vagina.

Your safety and confidence is crucial to the release and activation of your pelvic nerve. You have questions, I know. I can answer many by email and or text. You are both excited and frightened. I understand. I am available to meet at a coffee shop or any public place so you can alleviate some of your concerns. I can also supply referrals. However since this is so private, most women would rather maintain anonymity, so referrals may not always be available. See testimonials here.

Accessing Deep Intimacy

Intimacy is often defined in terms of sexual intercourse. I’m going to suggest that there is a level of intimacy that is deeper than (that form of) sex itself. This intimacy is so deep that it creates its own class of interpersonal connection.

Before we can access it we have to confront it, recognize it and embrace it for what it is on all levels. Intimacy this deep doesn’t have its roots in goodness. Unfortunately, it turns out that fear and uncertainty play an important role in being able to appreciate the particular intimacy I am going to describe.

When we approach the subject of human sexuality between men and women there is both excitement and apprehension. Our development as sexual partners in western culture is quite poor. Ancient customs and beliefs inhibit the dissemination of healthy growth and understanding of practices and techniques that could greatly improve our love lives.

The consequences of ignorance are that people end up in sexual situations that are unfamiliar and often intimidating in many ways. This seems to be more true for women. We are so far behind developmentally that women often live in one of multiple levels of fear around the possibilities of sexual encounters, not only unwanted encounters, but even encounters they are contemplating on a consensual basis. This is unacceptable on so many levels but it is the truth in our culture.

Trust

Women, to a much greater extent than men, must expend their energy in the seemingly never ending question of trust. Am I safe? If I trust him will safety continue? In addition, there are fractional trust questions. I trust him for this, but ‘can I trust him in certain circumstances’ types of questions. This puts women in a state of constant guard. This impacts both genders, but this work will focus more on women.

Depression – Anxiety – Poor Health

There are side effects of living a life of both wanting to trust and be with men and being perpetually guarded. Women become expert in skills of suppression and repression. These forms of withdrawal do not reconcile with being able to live in the full joy of what our modern lives have to offer. This discrepancy is stressful. Women suffer greatly from stress related illness such as heart attack, depression and anxiety, just to name a few.

In spite of their fears, women forge ahead in relationships and sexual encounters but not without their guard being close at hand. Intimacy does not thrive in the shadow of the guard. It is unfortunate that the guard is always there, (albeit often subdued). You cannot hide the guard. Men see, or feel, or perceive it on some level. The results of his awareness are unpredictable for women, guard!

What is intimacy?

Many books have been published elaborating on the concept of intimacy. From communication to sex. In this article, we will only look at one physical instance of intimacy. For many women, this particular exercise is life altering. In western culture it seems to be quite taboo.

Female Genital Massage

There are several ways of referring to this act of intimacy that can so unite 2 people, Yoni Massage, OM (orgasmic meditation), Tantra, or female genital massage. Where we distinguish this from sex in general is in the attention to detail, and more importantly, the structure for trust.

What is a Container?

What if there were strict guidelines that people followed to engage in intimate massage that allowed women to radically suppress their guard? Something really exciting is going to happen. Something that women typically worry “could” escalate into an undesirable and unwanted sexual situation. But NOT This Time. This time is different. Why? Because there is a boundary agreement. A sexual contact boundary contract. “We are going to do this, and only this.” Such agreements are called containers.

Most containers are implied. The big container of marriage implies and often specifically contracts for fidelity. Deviating from the container violates the agreement and trust is compromised or lost. When a container is small enough that it can be concisely articulated in writing or a handshake agreement, the chances of maintaining integrity in the execution of the container are much higher.

Orgasmic Meditation

The practice of OMing (Orgasmic Meditation) exemplifies the use of the container. In OMing a female (the strokee) is stroked in a very specific way, (by a stroker) for exactly 15 minutes, on a very specific area of her body, as articulated to in the OMing container agreement. The Stroker does not deviate in any way. This allows the strokee to free her mind of her worries and fears and become intently present in the orgasmic sensations in a meditative state. There is no goal except, two people being keenly tuned in for 15 minutes to connect through intense and intimate touch.

Of course, it is important to initially know or have reason to trust the stroker in the first place, but the point is, that high levels of trust in knowing with certainty that a sexually vulnerable encounter will proceed in a specifically prescribed way equates to exceptional pleasure for women.

It Gets Better.

As OMing is happening, the stroker (usually a man) taps into physiological responses from the spot he is stroking. The intimacy impacts for him are profound beyond explanation because every man experiences something different. He (or possibly she) is receiving a communication that is completely unspoken but completely understood on a primal level. A profound intimate experience is shared and a bond that is astonishing to our culture is formed. The strokee also experiences an array of emotional awakenings. She is inexplicably honored and respected so judiciously that she may take a sexual meditative trip deep into herself without her guard. This allows new levels of depth and richness with each encounter.

From empowerment to the discovery of orgasm itself, women’s sexuality thrives in the confines of the container. Trust it seems, is a powerful aphrodisiac, especially when paired up with a tool of certainty linked to sexual engagement.

OMing is only one of an infinite number of possible containers. Other simple containers might be a sensual massage, or a breast or yoni massage (all) with specific physical boundaries. In any encounter the basis remains the same, there are clear boundaries and behavioral expectations that cannot be violated. This allows women to transcend despondent sexuality patterns through control.

Rejuvenation

Sexual satisfaction is a rejuvenating experience. Unfortunately, women have been subjected to numerous assaults on their power to access the full spectrum of their hedonism. Containerized sexual experiences allow women to quickly escape sexual self-depredation. The result of this is an ever-increasing capacity for amplified sexual pleasure and confidence.

For a pdf copy of OM container,

Please email to receive your copy and to learn more, and experience OMing in your life

Savor the experience of touch.

 

Escape from the hustle and bustle of all of your to-do’s and allow me to transport your senses to another dimension. Your skin covers 100% of your being and your nerve endings await patiently and diligently in every square millimeter of your skin. When was the last time someone wrote on your back or ran their fingers through your hair? Your Senses love attention and I love to provide it I don’t see you as a bunch of muscles that need pressure and release (like Licensed Massage Practitioners). That is big brothers menu for you. I seek to elicit goose bumps, tingling, and downright delicious feelings that you experience mostly at the surface of your skin or scalp. I use (new) combs, hair brushes, makeup brushes, feather dusters, scratchers, beads, and other assorted objects to awaken sensations you may have forgotten or didn’t even know about. Once your external senses are revived, squeezing, sliding, kneading strokes feel even better to the muscles. Again, not as specific muscle attention, but more as pressure and touch for pleasure as opposed to therapy. We crave and need touch. Partners may fulfill some needs for touch, therapeutic massage may fulfill others. I provide an assortment of delicious sensations, delivered with mystery and creativity.

Have a particular theme, request, or suggestion? Please let me know. I love to customize your experience!

You choose your level of cover or attire, Traditional sheet or towel with draping, or au naturel

VAGINA WHISPERER

What if there was one man who spent over 15 years diligently studying the art of sexually satisfying the female body? Would that intrigue you? Could such a man understand ‘your’ private and intimate needs? Might his skills surpass your wildest expectations for a sexually skilled man? Do you wish your partner was such a man?

One man, in Seattle, made it his mission to understand the intricacies of the female Psycho-physiology to a degree that he could systematically train unskilled men to be phenomenal without ever knowing anything about the men’s female partners.

It’s okay to be skeptical. You’ve heard all kinds of promises about sex that were frankly bullshit. People (not just men) embellish about sex and satisfaction to guard their egos. Young people more so than older people. But a time comes when bullshit doesn’t pass in the bedroom any longer. This often results in a degradation of frequency and connection and it usually gets worse from there. As a relationship crumbles, (if it’s about poor quality sex) the options are few. Go separate ways or become authentic about what’s ‘not’ happening.

This man chose the latter, (even though his partner chose the former.) How could one not see how to be good at sex? It’s intuitive right? Just get her aroused and give her that fine specimen of manhood. It always works for him. Why would she not be satisfied? Etc. Nothing in our culture intervenes to redirect this sexual collision course with ignorance. In every other realm of our existence we coach each other when things are not quite right (You have something on your tooth there.) But if you are a clown in bed, even your partner may let you get away with that.

That said, one man put his ego on hold for 15 years and sought the answers to questions like these?
-What did you like about that experience?
-What did you dislike about that experience?
-What could he do differently to improve that experience?
-What was the most exciting thing anyone has ever done to you?

This was just the beginning though. Verbal questions like these soon interfered with the pleasure part of the experience. How might one obtain positive or corrective feedback without asking? Might women emit clues of pleasure or displeasure? And if so could other men be taught to read such clues?

I know, I can hear you now, Duh. Of course, you’ve been twisting, contorting, pushing, pulling and gyrating all these years trying to “show” us what to do or get us to the “right spot.” And do you want to hear what we were thinking? “I wish you would hold still so I can do that amazing thing I do for you.” Then when you finally get to that orgasm you fought so hard to get (or fake) we add another check to our skill scorecard. I apologize for every man who doesn’t get it. The sad truth is men can have an equally unpleasant experience with women. No one in our culture is immune to an ego that convinces us that we are better than we really are. But that is a subject of another article.

So this man experiments on women’s willing bodies in search of clues. What does this body like? Oh goose bumps, that’s a good sign. That gasp, that gyration, that jolt just before you cum are dull in comparison to seeing your vagina slam shut with pleasure, or your clitoris shotgun and squirm back to its root. But having these clues and more is still not enough.

This man had to understand the many things men do wrong and edit these bad techniques from the experiment sessions. He had to not have 1 or 2 or 5 or 10, but 100’s of mysterious touches, pinches, twists, grasps, squeezes, pulls, spreads, strokes, circles, pressures, tickles, surprises and techniques that keep you guessing, that ignite your senses, from the top of your head to the bottom of your feet. He had to discover how these little bits of pleasure, miles from the core of your body came from or went back to your pussy.

This man needed to know how to read every signal, find spots you didn’t even know were exciting, omit unpleasant contact, flirt with the most pleasant, temporarily deprive your immediate cravings and basically determine how to play your body like a symphony. Then practice this and more on hundreds of discouraged women to see if confidence might be restored to the male gender.

It was a daunting task but somebody had to do it so your partner might stumble upon it and unleash it on your unsuspecting body.
This website is where this man will share the results of some incredible experiments.

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